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The Parental Trap Flower Aid Kit

The Parental Trap Flower Aid Kit

£45.00Price
This specially combined Flower Aid Kit is for those who feel trapped by repeated behaviours, habits and approaches inherited from parents or parental figures or guardians.
 
The Parental Trap Flower Aid Kit contains 3 x 10ml dropper bottles, one each of:
 
Innocent Soul: 'Love and innocence will always exist because they are everywhere. They are the purest of gifts; gifts that are offered each and every day. Look into the eyes of your inner child. Do you see the love and trust there? Extend the same. I will remind you how to love yourself and, in this, you are always beloved.’
 
For those who have created the emotionally protective barriers of suspicion and mistrust in order to survive. I also feel this is an important essence in trauma recovery but that it is only to be worked with when the time is right spiritually.
 
Mother Wound: 'I am for The Put Upon. Do you find yourself caring, supporting and labouring for others, never seeming to have your own life, everyone wanting a little piece of you, never feeling you have time to yourself? I am aligned with those who have lost themselves in the lives of others, feel duty bound to care for all but themselves. I am the medicine of the martyr.'
 
To completely give yourself to the service of another, putting yourself down the list of priorities, are not the actions of someone who understands a boundary between themselves and others and how incredibly important this is. Mother Wound is useful for those who have grown up with a narcissitic or self centred matriarchal figure, or who have experienced the devastating loss of a mother figure when young and were encouraged or made to be the 'carer' for the family. 
 
Father Wound: 'I am for The People Pleaser. You need not agree to suggestions, plans and responsibilities that you’d rather refuse. Have confidence in saying No. Why do you feel pleasing others is more important than pleasing yourself?'
 
Helps to show us the reasons behind the behaviours of keeping the peace. You may feel that agreeing or going along with plans and leaving decisions to others is a loving way of making sure everyone is happy, a way to avoid any upset or to seek approval. But Father Wound invites you to explore why you would put your needs and wants secondary and why you need anyone’s approval but your own and that of Spirit.
 
Flowers: Chicory (Solar), Petunia 'Moonstruck' (Lunar), Petunia 'Moonstruck' (Solar)
Season: Suitable for all seasons
Elements: Air, Water, Fire
Deities/Archetypes: Brigid, Divine Goddess, Sun God
Moon Phase: All phases
 
The channelled words above from the plant spirits offer their medicine of self love, self discovery, self priority and a process of transformational healing.
 
The order in which you use them can be as you wish - I encourage you to listen to your intution in this sense. If you feel that issues that one specific essence helps support comes to the fore, use this essence at that time. Otherwise, they can be used morning, mid evening and bedtime, separately or combined. 
 
For more information on each individual essence, please visit the links above.
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  • I recommend working with the essence(s) every day. The timeframe and actions of the essences will be unique to the individual and are dependent on regularity of use and the intention you bring when working with the essences. Some catalyse in a short time, others may take a little longer. 

    One 10ml bottle is intended to provide enough for approximately 28 days supply if 4 - 6 drops of each are used in daily practice. 

    The order in which you use them can be as you wish - I encourage you to listen to your intution in this sense. If you feel that issues that one specific essence helps support comes to the fore, use this essence then. Otherwise, they can be used morning, mid evening and bedtime, separately or combined.

    DIRECTIONS

    Gently move the closed bottle in a figure of 8 on its side (like this ∞) - ideally in a North to South direction - for a total of 4 full figures of 8. If you don't know the directions where you are, do not worry! (but I would recommend getting to know them as they are useful points in spiritual and craft work.) 

    There is a video with audio description next to the photographs in each listing showing you how to do this. This is different from the traditional way of succussing the bottle against the heel of the hand, but the figure of 8 x 4 times is how these unique essences are ‘activated’. Please do not use this method for other brands of flower essences - please follow their own instructions. This way of activation is specific to VOLVA Essences.

    Flower essences are mainly used internally - as they are among the safest possible preparations to take internally - but unfortunately I cannot state that you can use them in this way.  In order for my essences to be stated as suitable for internal use, there is a regulatory process to go through. A stamp of regulatory approval does not, however, mean a better quality essence. Currently, I refuse to go through the regulatory process - here's some reasons why.

    Commercial companies who have received regulatory approval to sell their essences for internal use often do not grow every flower they use and boiling the flowers instead of solarising them is a common commercial practice. They are generally made in vast numbers to fulfill commercial stock levels. Once production numbers become at this level, sacredness is compromised - sadly this is the nature of commercialism. This process also means they are sitting on shelves in shops or in cupboards of online retailers for months on end.

    Folk medicine belongs to the people. It is empowerment. Once folk medicine becomes subject to authority and regulatory control and approval, it no longer belongs to the people. I have detailed more on this here.

    With VOLVA, your essences are created from the Mother when you order it. The Mother has been stored respectfully in a dedicated apothecary that is used only for the purposes of VOLVA medicines and practices. It is a sacred place.  I personally consider VOLVA flower essences to be superior in energy and vibration because the plant, the flower, the Mother and your essence is treated with respect and reverence at every single stage - from sowing the seed to the bottle in your hand.

    It is required to be stated here that these essences are only for anointing sacred items to deepen your spiritual work - such as rattles, drums, robes, tools and other ceremonial, ritual and craft items - and not for skin application or internal use.

    Here I provide as much information as possible for you to make a fully informed decision for your own wellbeing. While I have prescribed my essences to the clients of my private practice for years - and they have used them internally with incredible and profound results - if you choose to use VOLVA essences in other ways other than what is stated here, please note this is at your own risk. Please see the Disclaimer and Terms and Conditions sections for more information. 

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